See saw on the Law of Attraction
They say, “its all about balance”!
When I was young, I would sometimes stand astride the centre of the see-saw. I would transfer my weight from one side to another, until I had found the sweet point, where the see-saw was in perfect balance. Success! Or was it? (Just in case you’re wondering – this is not me on the see saw!)
Having achieved this balance it was boring to stay there. There was no movement; nothing to do. Life was static.
We want action!
Human beings love having something to do. I don’t believe we want balance at all. We want movement, flow and change all the time. It’s my opinion that – and you know I always qualify what I’m saying with that statement before I make what could appear to be an unusual or strange statement – we want movement – all the time.
When I played on the see-saw, changing my weight from one side to the other – dipping it to the left, raising it to the right; controlling the rise and fall, by choice – I was dancing with the see-saw. Keeping it in motion was fun.
Having fun is fun
This is again – in my opinion – what life is all about! We are emotional beings and we want to have fun.
We want to laugh. We love to play. We want to dance with life. We love to create success – success equals happiness in anyone’s book I think. We are emotional beings that like movement and change. Even those who don’t like change, like being still even less.
Just as I did with the see-saw, we like to keep things in motion. In fact, we could be summed up easily by one word, E-motion – Energy in motion.
To keep moving, we need the dips of life: we need the things we don’t like in order to show us what we do like. Its only when we experience something we don’t like are we able to make a choice and raise up the other side of the see-saw. The contrast and variety in life are our reason to keep moving and grow.
Most of us think that our feelings, our emotional balance, comes from that’s happening around us and we have no control over it. Most of us think that life has to be a certain way before we can be happy: that people have to act a particular way so that we can be happy. That’s ‘conditional’ love.
For most people, their emotional, vibrational balance is affected by what’s going on around them. However we don’t have to be affected by others -but so often we allow ourselves to be so.
Ideally, we should be adaptable enough to adjust to life, so that we stay happy too the time. It’s like standing in a bus or on a train, you put your feet slightly apart, been your knees so that you keep your balance with every twist and turn you take.
When we accept that we feel as we feel because of what we’re focusing on, it makes life much easier to play on the see saw. How we feel has nothing to do with the other and everything to do with us. If we don’t like what we’re experiencing, we can look away; ‘turn the other cheek’: we can change our focus and look at something that does please us.
And if you want to, you can think about why you created the experience in the first place – after all the Law of Attraction can only deliver to you experiences on your vibration.