“What do you think I should do ….?”
Do you live with indecision and uncertainty? Do you find yourself asking others “What do you think I should do”? If it’s difficult to make up your mind and stick to your decision, then there’s a Bach Flower Remedy to help you.
Difficult to make up your mind
There are two remedies for indecision, Scleranthus and Cerato.
Scleranthus can’t make up their mind: but doesn’t talk about it.
Cerato – talks about their indecision and asked the advice of others.
Both Scleranthus and Cerato are part of the Twelve Healers (which means that they are Type or Soul remedies. There is a definite personality for the each of the Twelve Healers).
Cerato types are easy going and flexible but they don’t trust themselves to make the right decision, so they live in a constant state of uncertainty.
Don’t trust their own judgement
If you’re in a Cerato state you cannot make up your mind and you constantly seek the advice of others: “what do you think”? you ask of everyone. Those in a Cerato state are very easily influenced by others and so often will allow their identity to be controlled by others.
You’ll be lead astray by the opinions and advice of others and sadly, usually find out the hard way, that it wasn’t the right decision for you.
When you need Cerato, you like gather information as you like to be sure you’ve got all the information before you can decide. Although you know a lot, remember you don’t trust yourself, so you don’t use or share what you’ve learnt.
With having a flexible outlook on life, Cerato can’t possible decide what is right or wrong because everything can feel ‘right’, so in a Cerato state you question your decision a moment after you made it.
Need for approval
As Cerato is always asking the opinions of others, they frequently appear gullible. They have a weak sense of their own identity, hence are not able to make up their mind. They like convention, as it gives them ‘form’ or a foundation for life. They like to know what’s ‘in’ and imitate others, so they can be ‘in with the In-Crowd’. Then they’ll know they’ve got it right!
Cerato people are curious and love to learn and that includes seeking and acquiring self-knowledge.
Over to you. Whether you’re taking on a challenge and seeking a special goal and want to keep your confidence high; or perhaps you’re lonely and looking for that one special relationship, or you’re looking for more out of life, Bach Flower Therapy can help you achieve your goal, help you meet someone special and help you find your higher purpose in life.
Through studying the Bach Flower Remedies, as you search for the remedy that is going to help you feel better, you’ll gain self-knowledge and can be guided to living your full potential.
They are amazingly powerful remedies. Click here to find our more about the Remedies and this powerful method of healing.
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(isn’t Cerato a beautiful colour? The flowers grow in a group together and each flower is no bigger than your little finger nail!)