Find it difficult to say No?
Do you have trouble making boundaries – and keeping them?
Can you relate to this example?
“Mother has a really strong will-power. I don’t seem to have the strength to stand up for myself. I just do everything she tells me. I don’t have it in me to tell her No. I’m exhausted.
Sometimes I long to go somewhere just for a few hours, where I can be on my own to avoid the inevitable flood of anger and criticism that rains over me, if I do manage to say No to her. She over whelms me.
I don’t seem to have even a smidgen of the will-power mother has, so I can’t stand up for myself”.
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Willingnss to help
Caring Clare is a gentle soul, easy-going and seemingly weak-willed. She finds it much easier to be guided by others than to make her own decisions. As she is willing to help others, they often take advantage of her of her good nature and her willingness to help.
Unfortunately, Caring Clare is easily persuaded and often exploited. She’s lead astray and in her genuine desire to please – she always takes on more than she can do. (Does this sound familiar to you?) When her friends tell her off because she’s taken on too much, she denies it. She finds when someone asked for her help, she simply can’t say no!
Becomes a doormat
Bach called those in need of Centaury ‘doormats’. Those in need of Centaury have a weak sense of will and they can’t stand up for themselves. They can’t make boundaries in their lives and so they allow others to over step the mark. The Bach Flower Remedy called Centaury will strength their will and resolve.
The positive effect of this very useful remedy are….
Now, when Caring Clare is in a difficult situation, she now asks herself “what do I want” and then makes her own decisions.
Centaury people are the ‘servers’ of our community, our nurses and carers, so they are always going to be of service but now they are able to say No when necessary and will quietly and unobtrusively go about being of service. But now she’ll follow her own inner desires, instead of following the instructions of others.
Bach Flower Remedies is an extremely powerful method of healing. It can pull you out of a crisis in seconds; it can help you manage the stress of daily life and, if you choose to look deeper, you can use it as a path to self-knowledge and finding your spiritual connection – as I did. [Perhaps one day I’ll tell you about that!]
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