It’s All About You.

If you want to change a part of your garden, first you need to plan want you want, and then dig up what you no longer want, so you can remodel it.    It’s the same if you want to create a happy, successful and meaningful life. First you must plan what you want and where you want to go, and then ‘dig up’ what’s already there: get rid of what you don’t want.

This is a ‘soft’ way of saying you must realise that you have do some ‘remodelling’ work on yourself because creating the life of your dreams is all about YOU and has nothing to do with the Law of attraction. It’s all about YOU.

I’m sure you’ve heard me say it before and you’ll probably hear it again: creating an amazing life really is all about you and what you think and feel about yourself and your life.

The law of attraction always, and only ever, responds to you and your thoughts and feelings.  The life you’re living, day by day, is a true reflection of what is going on in your mind.

Every tool and technique you’re offered (even the 3 tools I offer you) is a way of helping you change how you think about yourself and the world.

100% Responsibility

Our universe is made of energy and similar energy vibrations are being drawn together – until, as Einstein says, “energy becomes matter”.  Thoughts do become things.  And you know this, as sometimes when something has manifested, you’ve said “I knew that would happen”. Your thoughts came back to you – and you noticed!

You must take 100% responsibility for your life.  It’s your life, with your dreams, and only you can breathe life into your dreams.  No one can deliver them to you on a silver platter.

You’ve got to show up for your dreams and goals because you’re the only one who can turn them into reality.

The first step in manifesting an exciting and successful life is looking inwards.

Curiosity. Creativity. Growth

We want more.  No. It’s not greed.  It’s because we’re curious and we want to create and experience more out of life.  Life is continuously nudging us to play a bigger game (it’s all about curiosity, growth and creativity).  It doesn’t  matter what you want in life, if you have the wherewithal to dream and imagine it, the universe has the wherewithal to deliver it right to your door.  And its exciting!  Thrilling to create what you want – and then create something else!

Wandering thoughts

Even though we know all this (but it is good to be reminded, isn’t it), why is it that we let our minds wander?  Why is it that we dwell on the problems in our lives instead of looking for solutions and opportunities?

We get stuck in our routine.  We hold ourselves back and we put our dreams on hold – and somehow, probably our biggest dreams never see the light of day.

How long is it since you got out your dreams and dusted them off?  Have they been on the back burner for a week or so, or a year or two, or even longer?  And then suddenly, you’re reading a blog like this, and you realise that your dream has been in cold storage for over 10 years.

Pushing through

To succeed, you must be prepared to push through all your negative thought patterns, your resistances, your fear and overwhelm, the lack of time and every other stumbling block you come across each day.

Remember you’ve got to show up every day for your dream.  Your dream has got to know that you’re there for it and your working towards it every day, in every possible way. You got to say to yourself out loud …



No matter how long your dreams have been on the back burner, if you don’t do something about them today, then one year from today, you’ll be wishing you dusted off your dreams and got started today.

A Vision Board can help you get really clear on your dreams, help you expand your thoughts about You and who you can become.   Click here, if you’d like to know more about Vision Boarding.

Over to you

As always, I love hearing from you. So please leave your thoughts and comments in the Comment Box below.  Thank you.

PS – Next week, I’d like to tell you who you really are.  When I started my spiritual exploration, people used to say “be more of who you really are” and it drove me mad!
Also being told “you’re a spiritual being having a physical experience” is about as helpful as a banana boat in a storm!
I worked out who I was myself and I’d like to help you find out who you really are too.  It’s the foundation of Confidence!  See you next week.


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